I like to think that I'm pretty easy going and get along with people reasonably well. I don't like and try my best not to judge people as I don't like to be judged. But there's a fine line and once it's crossed I can't help but put my foot down. As they say... karmas a bitch, what goes around comes around and cheaters never win.
We had new years party at my house this year so we invited friends over for the count down. Well hubby invited some coworkers over. In the group was this girl I never met before. So I was polite and said hi to her and smiled when she looked at me. But I didn't have a conversation with her nor did I invite her to take pictures with me and my girlfriends. I just didn't have a good feeling towards her. She even offered to hold Chelsea for part of the night and I felt uncomfortable. Well a few days later I found out from my friend that she was dating one of my husband's coworker. The coworker is here on a work permit from Vietnam. And back in Vietnam he had a wife and kids. And yes this girl knows he's married with kids but still dating him. OMG. I was furious. If I knew this I wouldn't even let her or him step foot in my house. I have zero tolerance for that kind of thing. My blood just boils when I think of the whole situation. There are about 30 guys at my husband work here on a work permit. More than half are married with kids and only 4 of them sponsored their family here, the others don't want to because they want their "freedom". Yeah, freedom to cheat and be bastards. OMG. Blood boiling.